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What could a group of international students building a house for Habitat
for Humanity have to do with creating this reality? How can
integrating psychology and
spirituality contribute to building global community
through the building of a Habitat dwelling?
The students who participate in the 7 day intensive, the Personal
Integration Process developed by Dr. Carlos Warter, MD, know. They learn the
meaning of community from the inside out. They are becoming
differentiated, spiritually integrated, and committed to authentic
relationship through a powerful mind/body integration process,
facilitated by Dr. Carlos Warter. Not only do they find that the
building of a house can be a container for a personal transformational
process, but using the tools of dedication, integrity, and personal value
as they build, help to chisel a community that grows from the
inside out with positive support. As they reach for their own
inner essence, clearing away psychological debris and serving
others, they find meaningful personal community and simultaneously
enhance their global community.
Dr. Warter skillfully integrates personal growth with the practical building of a Habitat for
Humanity house. He uses a symmetrical process of rebuilding oneself
psychologically in phase with the personal contribution to the
development of the house. Through the combination of inner
work and service to community, students are led to become aware of
and transcend their own deep processes. This parallel process of
inner and outer transformation facilitates a psychological container
for the essential self to be nurtured. The lesson is found through
deep contact with the essential self. Students experientially
learn the framework with which life becomes spontaneously
appreciated and deeply valued. The experience of the essential
self feels like coming home.
For over 25 years, Dr. Warter has been coaching students to understand experientially
that the house of the essential self is not only built around a healthy personality,
but that the totality of this house is more than the personality.
The
essential self incorporates personal essence as well as
personality, and is the dynamic aspect of self that can be called
spirituality. The presence of the essential self can spontaneously
unfold through doing the inner work during the PIP (Personal Integration
Process), designed to stimulate the spontaneous unveiling of the
essential self, and aiming to clear the mind/body house free of psychological debris. The essential self, when it can dwell
freely is more reliable and emotionally
stable. The perception of presence is an experience of familiarity with this self.
Students can become intimately connected to their own inner wisdom.
By learning to be present, students can learn to master their psychological reactivity.
and the understanding of personal responsibility in relationships.
How is this done in a way that is personal to the student in the
context of group work? During the P I P, students learn a
technology for redirecting their reactivity, helping them
to break free of the constraints of personality and social conditioning. They actually build the Habitat house while they clear the inner
house of the self, restructuring personality and discovering
personal essence through exercises that involve writing, relationship,
expression,
group work, and engaging in practical, life
sustaining activity. Through comprehensive self-evaluation coupled
with practical work, students can cognitively restructure their internal schema
by learning to look beyond the identifications of personality to
Who They
Really Are.
When the debris is clear,
students become more connected to essence through the strength of the
personality, and life is more valued and lived fully. They learn
skills on how to engage with presence and disengage from the
emotional fall out of this debris.
The PIP is a multi-dimensional and fast track program to an individuated self, helping to rapidly change the perception of the self so that students begin
to realize who they truly are. Quickly, the student becomes able to successfully differentiate the essential self from the conditioned
personality. Thus, psychic energy is freed up from the psychological blocks, so it can be directed to living life more fully and passionately from the
essential self. As a result, students learn to relate more authentically. With a positive outlook on life, and ability to detach from the influence of
the conditioned past, relationships improve. Acceptance of self becomes the tool of the present, to create a real understanding of engaging fully with
life. The future from this presence of essential self seems very bright and valuable.
Building the house is the metaphor for transformation. The
technology that helps students learn to put aside
reactivity and build on a foundation of inner strength is learned
experientially. Inner work is accomplished while the
productive process of outer work on the house is performed. The practical
labor on the house facilitates the transformation by requiring that students
apply these new skills, and go beyond the negative influence of personality.
During
the PIP, students essentially learn to clear their family of origin issues, and
practice ceasing to be in effect of them. This begins the restructuring of personality by releasing the pain of childhood wounds and detaching from the
mother /father introjects. They move through psychological debris that might otherwise impede their personal growth and well-being,
learning to successfully maneuver around projective identification and
effortlessly develop collaborative cross-cultural community. The finished
product is a house that is built for a community in the spirit of heartfelt
cooperation, and an international community that is bonded with the glue of
the essential self.
As students release from their reactive emotional history, the house assembles. Similarly, they learn to disengage from their identification with
the building of the house and the need to know to whom it is donated. They must learn about and surrender to the process of letting go of the ego
attachment to the internal and external house. It is enough to know that this inter-cultural community of
colleagues has emerged out of collaborative
efforts of authentic support. They can let go of the product in the knowledge of each other's support and the sense of internal value that is
independent
of personality.
Integrating this very amazing restructuring process continues
after the PIP is complete. Students leave with a useful,
concrete format, for continual clearing. Practical, daily exercises based on each
student's personal experience, are tools to continue the personal
work for one year after the PIP completion. When the students
leave the program, they have the option to continue this inner work doing the daily exercises. The personal work, adapted from the
student's own experience, is designed to ultimately enhance the quality and appreciation of life, and move the
student rapidly toward self-actualization. Students, who practice
daily, notice substantial acceleration in their personal growth.
Imagine a world where everyone is freed from their psychological pain, where relationship is driven by appreciation rather than fear, where individuals
are dedicated to the growth of a global community that authentically inter-relates and is free of cross-cultural issues. Imagine a reality where
psychic pain is released so individuals are free to relate. Invested with faith in humanity, dedication to growth, and a sense of personal and
planetary responsibility which is guided by a reliable inner wisdom. This is a world which is global, where fear is put into perspective, and acceptance
is the organizing factor. Dr. Warter has been able to guide the students of the PIP and other courses to begin to fathom and grow into this reality.
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